I had a whole long response written out and then my browser crashed...so here's the tl;dr version.

It all depends on how much control you feel comfortable having. The pdoc works for you, so if you're not happy, you have the right to find another pdoc who is more your style. My first pdoc was the kind where I had no input on anything, I just went in for 5-10 minutes and he wrote scripts. My current pdoc lets me have an opinion about what I want to be on and how much I want to be on. I also had an interim pdoc who pretty much wrote a script for whatever I wanted without question...