I went through 3 not so good Dr's. before I found one that clicked. Hey, they are humans too. And not all so sensitive. Go through this period of shock, exposure, embarrassment and all the normal emotions that come with it- and go find someone else. But first, how about you call facilities that specialize in the area of interest and ask if they could refer you to a Dr. Or call the 800 numbers in your area - or call down a list of therapists and ask them who they recommend. I found my good general practitioner by getting a recommendation from my psychiatrist.