A guy told me once "be yourself". I don't know what that means. I'm still trying to figure it out. But I think it has something to do with being genuine and really wanting to connect with another human being. And the connection has to be for the good of your both. Love your neighbor as yourself. Try it with the next person you meet. Doesn't matter if they are a random stranger or not. Every human being response to genuine caring and love. Love is what makes the world go round!