IMO-

Therapy is just a tool, it can't help you unless you personally decide how to make use of it. There is definitely no way to just have healing performed on you. But the feelings that come up in therapy are valuable if you use them to understand and modify your behavior to create more and more stable good feelings in your life. If you just want to enact (by either seeking out or seeking relief from) the feelings, within therapy, then you cannot grow, no matter how good of a T you have.