You keep repeating that he said this and that. Surely you know by now that people don't always say what they think?. Right?

Him saying his dream is this or that doesn't mean that's true. Of course it doesn't say he look for hook ups. Who says that? Clearly he has to say he is looking for relationship. Otherwise he won't get any one to respond. You should go by what people do not what they say per se. His actions do indicate he wasn't serious but went for hookup perhaps on
rebound.

Seriously inclined man wouldn't have sex that soon or spend that much money on hotels with total strangers. He would be dating you and getting to know you slowly by building friendship first not climbing to bed before he even knows a woman.

First of all he is still married so it's not appropriate for him even be on dating sites. And he is extremely rude. I don't even see what's great about him. Things he said? It doesn't mean anything

I agree with Jenny that he is a player. So no he is not your soul mate whatsoever

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