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Old Feb 19, 2016, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Walkedthatroad View Post
I agree with you. A lot of therapy is "malarkey." Yet, for many of us we are/were able to use it to our advantage and make it/them work for us.
Actually - I did not call all of therapy malarky. If it helped you great. Any number of things can help people.

But what I was calling malarky was the idea that if they don't make it mysterious and unclear, if they actually were to be clear and forthcoming about what they are doing, that it would not work at all. The idea that clients are so incapable of understanding or being able to still use therapy appropriately if those guys would stop all of the smoke and mirrors and game playing and just explain to clients how what they are doing at the client works or at least is supposed to work - it would not. If you found the smoke and mirrors game useful - good - but malarky that it is the only way.
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