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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
You choose the circumstance though. You have control over where you spend your time, and who you interact with and put effort into knowing. Unless you are a teacher then you can easily find ways to spend most of your day near people close to your own age.
You choose to encourage contact with young women. You choose to not tell them your intentions and hopes. You set the circumstances up to cause you emotional pain.
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Well I think simply interacting with young people doesn't mean wanting them in certain way. Besides being a teacher I have second job that is unrelated to education. Most employees are very young. I spend large chunk of time with them, trained one last night. Under no circumstances at no given point I ever had romantic interest in any of them. And I do look and act younger than my age. Just spending time with young people doesn't mean one has to develop romantic interest in them. I can't imagine wanting to date 20 year old. The very idea is something to discuss with professional/ therapist etc
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