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Originally Posted by lostinsidemyself
I thought I was the only one that did that!
"Here's some of my 'nasty-ness...still there? Here's some more! Still there? Let me just show you all of it...oh that scared you away!"
Seems to be the theme of my life. Poking at people to see how much of me they can take.  |
Oh no, I'm sure a lot of us do it! I'm not so much aggressive to them as I am negative. I tell them all the bad things about me, all the bad things anyone has ever said about me, reassure them that I'll only disappoint/fail/hurt/frustrate/disgust them and that it's better to pass on me....etc. It's our way of heading off the inevitable abandonment and pain at the pass. At least we can be certain of *something*.