Hmmmm have you gone to the therapist that he is also seeing alone. It seemed like he came back from the therapist reacting in a way that he would after seeing a therapist who heard only his side of the story......did you ever see that therapist on your own so that the T could hear you side of the story so that he can get the whole picture?

You may not want to spend the money, but it's a waste if only your H goes to this T & you don't because then he only gets your H's side of the story.

Hmmmm I'm an only child. I keep the radio going 24/7 now that I left my H because the house is quiet & I need talking & words to think about & since I don't own a TV & haven't had one for almost 9 years, the radio is the next best thing.

I lived for 13 years in separate rooms before I was finally financially able to leave my H. Interesting comment I heard at the end from him was that he didn't want a divorce because then it would make him look like a failure. Hmmmm so my leaving him 9 years ago didn't make him look that way also????? I'm working on getting a divorce because I'm the only one with any money to get one & it's not as expensive doing an out of state one but I walked away from basically EVERYTHING I ever owned over my life & the 33 years of marriage including the things I brought from my mother's house after she died. It's too expensive to move things 2100 miles across the country. Sometimes we have to figure out the cost & the benefits of leaving & make our decisions based on our REAL needs.