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Originally Posted by eskielover
Huh??????? I don't read anything in what you posted that indicates what changed? you said that guy got fired or left a long time ago.....your problems still exist NOW? So what changed? or is it that you just aren't invited any longer? It still doesn't change your H & the way he is toward you? I'm confused  |
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Well, first of all, my husband stopped pressuring me to spend time with his friends or go anywhere that I don't want to go. He's finally realized that he can't change me. So he stopped trying to-
And yes, he does still joke around about me being weird or whatever, but it's not done in a mean way anymore. He is more accepting of who I am now even though he doesn't like the fact that I'm different at times. Like I said, he's not trying to control me anymore.
He doesn't bother me to change like he used to. He'll just make a comment about how it's weird that I act or think like I do, but either in a joking way, or when I don't manage to fit in with other people like my difficult parents. He thinks that I should try to please my parents since they're my parents and that they're old and they won't change, so I should or some crap like that.
OK, I hope that didn't confuse you. Hopefully I managed to clear things up-