Hello TransparentLies: Welcome to PsychCentral... from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit. I would have to admit that this is a concern with which I am not familiar. So I really cannot write much of anything to be helpful. Yes, I do think that seeing a therapist might be helpful. But try to find one who has some knowledge & experience with regard to your particular concern. A therapist who does not can do more harm than good, in my opinion.

By the way, there is also a men only Forum, here on PC. If you don't get the kind of response you were hoping for on this Forum, you might also try posting on there:

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