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Old Feb 19, 2016, 10:11 PM
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I had a few of these moments with ex T. The first one was a watershed (pun intended) moment and nothing was the same after that. It signaled a level of attunement that was previously unknown to me, at least from somebody in a caretaking role. Things later got painful and destructive, and I now look back at the moment as the start of a treacherous emotional enmeshment. But it felt powerfully good at the time.
I feel the good part only. Although I have talked to a few people about it and they're half and half about it. Some say that it means my T and I are really close and others say it wasn't right.

I dont see why it wasnt right or anything. Any idea?