. . .In the end, for me, the true test is--how is my life outside of therapy? Well, it's been worse for me lately so I quit. No, not the therapists fault, but I do think he was not attuned enough to me but he also wasn't artistic/creative enough to understand how to help me. But it wasn't my fault either. And in terms with his character, I know what I need to get better, but my T insisted my issues were all transference. I didn't agree. And if I am well, I certainly wouldn't be here seeking support or even visiting this forum if therapy was "working" for my life. So if it wasn't his fault, and it wasn't my fault, who is at fault? Hmm. Maybe the therapy is flawed.