So my boyfriend and I were dating for a month and a half, when I found out that he kept his two exs phone numbers in his phone.
He told me that he hadn't dated a guy for a year, when in reality, he had a boyfriend 3 months before we went on our first date, he said he didn't want me feeling like the 'rebound' because he got badly hurt in that relationship (his boyfriend just suddenly blocked him from everything), he said he keeps his previous boyfriend phone number because he thinks that his ex is gonna call to apologize. Then I found out that he dated a guy 2 weeks before he met me and thats when i saw that guys phone number in his phonebook. There was no fancy name, it was just their first (not last) name, he said he didn't know the other guys last name). After I found out all this by looking at his phone, I cried for about half an hour, then thats when I woke him up and talked to him about it. He said he didn't want me to know how 'unexperienced' he was. His first relationship was a month and his second was 3.
The sickening part about the first relationship, is he was 14 and the guy was 18 years old. Thinking this sickens me and makes me want to cry. The guy told him he found an interest in him since he was 12 years old. I told my boyfriend that he was a pedophile. And that he raped him, as he wasn't of age to provide consent. He said no, and I pointed out the 12 year old interest thing and said how do you not see it? He said that the guy wanted to keep it a secret, and i said thats because what he was doing was illegal and wrong. And he just denied it. The relationship was almost purely sexual.
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