Maybe we’re just on different wavelengths but also maybe this illustrates the whole question of how people think and feel about people on different wavelengths – and those thoughts and feelings are likely to be different for different people, too.

To me, there is a difference in how I feel about a person if I think “This is a person who can lie to and manipulate me without feeling guilt because of the way his brain is made.” as opposed to “This person is a liar and manipulator.” With the first, there is a sense of relationship. With the second there is not.

How do you feel about that? Does that make any sense to you? It seems subtle and/or complicated and I’m not sure I’m explaining it in a way that comes across well. Or maybe our brains are just wired differently?