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Originally Posted by healingme4me
So long as your boyfriend recognizes that you are taking steps to overcome this fear, then it doesn't seem like a classic self sabotage of a relationship. Sounds like you've a good relationship with good communication.
Does the fear delve from your past? Thinking more along the lines of your parent's relationship type of past.
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We do have pretty good communication. I hope you're right that I'm not self sabotaging.
I don't think it's a past issue with my parents. They have a model relationship, been married for like 40 years. I've made terrible choices in boyfriends and partners, which I think causes my fear now. In the past, I've had a tendency to chose men who were unavailable or uninterested in either me or relationships. They've all ended painfully.
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