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Originally Posted by PsychNitrous
We do have pretty good communication. I hope you're right that I'm not self sabotaging.
I don't think it's a past issue with my parents. They have a model relationship, been married for like 40 years. I've made terrible choices in boyfriends and partners, which I think causes my fear now. In the past, I've had a tendency to chose men who were unavailable or uninterested in either me or relationships. They've all ended painfully.
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I'm basing that it's not self sabotaging based upon the fact that you've written that there's no underlying reason to worry where your bf is concerned and that it's not pushing him away.
Past relationships don't always indicate future outcomes. So they are rather difficult to gage the present moment upon.
Hopefully you get it sorted with your therapist and find your inner peace about your relationship. Takes courage and confidence to look at a relationship as something you can survive without, but as a choice in partner and something that you bring just as much to the table as they do. As a person that it would be hard to leave and hard to want to leave.
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