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Old Feb 20, 2016, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted by coolibrarian View Post
Something my T reminds me of, if she's going to be away: She tells me I did nothing wrong, and it's not my fault. That way it feels less like a punishment, like she's leaving me because I did something wrong. It's an old feeling, rearing its ugly head in today's reality. You have every right to feel what you feel, and may I suggest that you talk to your T about it? When is she going on leave?
I've already talk about soemof my feelings/thoughts. It's hard because it's also about her. If it would be about someone else it wouldn't be so hard to talk to T about it.
Whenever my T is going away, is doesn't feel like punishment to me but like she doesn't really care about me. I know she also deserves vacation, but going aways for 5 months...
Her leave starts at the start of April