My friend has suddenly kind of been less than nice lately. I am not treated well by her and she says that it's my own fault. She makes me feel at fault for things (all things). I could probably say "you look great today" and rather than enjoy that, she makes me feel guilty for neglecting to say that she looked great yesterday. She takes things I say and kind of turns them inside out and around and then I feel like dirt.

I know she could be dealing with an issue that I'm not aware of, but what if she's not?

Is it my own self-esteem issue that makes me only see it as my fault?

My logic is totally failing me here. Friends should not make you feel like dirt. If they do, then they are not friends. Right?