I'm not saying a T should tell clients they're are trying to get pregnant. But she could have told me at the intake that in the upcoming year she will have about a 5-month break from work and that I'll have to transfer to a new T. She doesn't have to tell the reason. But that way I would had a choice. If I want to transfer to a new T during my treatment or if I wanted to start straigth away with a new T. Now I don't have a choice.

I now know what if I would ever start with a new T, I'll ask if that T is planning a long leave from work for in the upcoming year.
For some it maybe isn't so hard to change T's, but for others it is. I'm used to this T. I trust her. We've been working on several things. I'm not well yet, but I'm doing a little bit less bad than a year ago. Changing T's... It took me a long time to trust this T and to be confortable enough to tell her things and it's still not always easy. It will be very hard to start again with a new T. A year ago I didn't really had anything to lose, but now. If this new t is bad or not helpful for me, then I can get a setback. I've had several T's who were bad or not helpful, so I know it's possible.
And during the time T is aways there will be several things that are difficult for me and I need some support with that.

If I had know this, then maybe it would have been better for me to start with a new T from the beginning. I can't be sure about that because I can't go back in time, but this situation is causing some issues for me and my treatment.