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Originally Posted by brokenandalone1234
I personally feel that as a woman it is my job to care for my fiance and when we have kids the kids too. I work about 8 hours more than my fiance every week but I don't feel he should have to do any chores unless he chooses to. I don't see this as your husband being a control freak I see this as him saying he wants more traditional gender roles in the house which I feel every man has a right to demand that. Women can work but I feel as a women we have a duty to our SO and kids to be the care taker first our work outside the home is secondary. Sorry if that is harsh just my belief.
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That is not possible for the majority of people in this day and age and I dont think even my grandmother has this mindset.
- a man has a "
right to demand" what? really? wow , just wow
I do agree as mentioned with there being a household acct and then each person have there own personal accounts for what they want or need or desire.. Kinda hell to have to ask your spouse for X money because you want to surprise them with a gift.