{{{{{{{{{{{{{Debbie}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You've come such a long way, I hate to see you so upset about this. I understand completely where you're coming from. Jerry is the same way but in much larger amounts! If your hubby isn't spending the money anyway, why does it matter so much to you? Surely, cancelling a DVD once a month can't take THAT long!

Methinks you're still trying to change him after deciding it's a lost cause. If I were you, I'd let it go. Let him do what he wants! In the end, he'll pay the consequences, right? Let HIM deal with it and YOU wash your hands of his business.

Please take care of YOU. Save your energies for YOUR important stuff!