He might think he is a good lover actually. He might be in total denial.

But again people pretend for number of reasons. After years of emailing he maybe thought you two will never meet

. Also if it was his first time with you and you two don't really know each other ( emailing doesn't count as he clearly was full of surprises) maybe he was just very stressed and it often fails the first time under pressure. Why even go to bed right away? Maybe if you two focused on other things first like romance but not bedroom then maybe he wasn't that bad? So it was just one night stand type of thing? You slept together and that was it?

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