I'm going to be totally honest with you guys. It does sound like stupid excuses. And when I told him that you don't just abandon the people you love he completely lost it. He called me a selfish thing and told me I had some nerve accusing him of being the bad guy in all this, swore at me, the works. He got very defensive, part of me thinks that because he felt guilty about not being able to handle my mi he didn't want to look bad thus he accused me of being 100% responsible of breaking up this relationship but I had told him from the very beginning what this relationship would be like if he wanted to be with me and warned him about all the symptoms so really there's no excuse.
Thank you all for your loving support. <3