I agree, you should talk to your doctor about it.

You might also try some products meant to help women's arousal, like Zestra. I've tried this product, although only once, and would like to try again (I only used about half the pack, would like to try the full effect), but it does help. It has a mild odor, but I only noticed it if I got it close to my nose, and according to what I've read, it doesn't taste good (but isn't harmful), so, you don't want your guy "going south" if you use it.

Some doctors suggest adding Viagra to your meds, but I personally think this is a bad idea. However, that would be your decision.

One thing I'm going to be trying, and you might find helpful, is The Orgasmic Diet. It uses vitamins and nutrition, plus a kegel exercisor, and many women swear by it.