If you aren't interested in dating men of different race then you don't have to. It's not being judgmental but just have preferences. But it seems that you really do want to meet someone yet you find excuses why things might not work before you even try. Like one guy was too heavy and this one is of a different race etc etc

I think on dating sites you can put preferences and state that you don't want specific race or religion etc

when I did online dating I had preference of specific level of education that is acceptable to me. Like nothing below that would work, so then people wouldn't show in my searches and wouldn't contact me and I wouldn't have to respond. That isn't being judgmental but just knowing what doesn't work for you. You just have to be up front.

You do have to be reasonable though.

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