Many of us have/had relationship issues. That's why we speak to you. From experience.

I went for un available men too and jumped into it too fast too. I wish I went to therapy at younger age. You keep attracting unavailable men and you keep defending them and getting attached to them.

You need to figure out why and you don't need to rush and have one man after another. Now you are talking again with this man who strings you along for that many years. The guy isn't available yet you keep pursuing him. Just because he says he misses you or he regrets etc if he has a fiancée yet tells you how he loves you or other nonsense then he is a total jerk!!! He is engaged. It's inappropriate for him to make love declarations. He cheated on you and now cheats on her. The other one was married. Etc etc

You might need to look into better therapist who can help figure out why you do this?

They might not be all together bad guys. They just aren't available for you.

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