Haha! Yes, it is a real soap opera!!
Trust me. I am avoiding him as far as I can. For the last 3 months we barely exchanged 3 words.

And when I have to talk to him, I voice my concerns now.
Strangely enough it has some impact (at least so far but no idea if it will last).

He can keep his love (I don't think he's capable of it at this stage of his life, he's seeing 3-4 girls regularly and each thinks she has a shot. I am watching this mess unravel from the benches. It will end badly for all people involved, I think. Not my problem though). But I do want some consideration. We have common friends and it creates a bad atmosphere otherwise.