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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am really confused on the whole issue now. On 2/8 you said "yesterday" he called you weird unfriendly stuck up and silly and other things, and you even titled your thread " judgmental husband" etc etc and today apparently none of this is happening, everything is resolved years ago and things between you two are great. Same as others I am confused how things improved so greatly in just two weeks and how?
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Sorry about the confusion. First of all, yes, he still thinks that I'm "weird" and all of those other things sometimes. That hasn't changed. So from now on, I think it's best to now expect any emotional support from him as he'll only end up blaming me for not trying harder to fit in, ugh!
Anyways, he said those things to me after I told him about a meetup that didnt go so well as I stated. He acted like I should've just sucked things up and agreed to be in the picture despite my discomfort with it. He then told me that's why the women in the group rejected me.
Well, about those other things from the past regarding his friends and family, that happened in my 20's mostly. I'm now in my early 40's. I shouldn't have brought that up. I only mentioned it to explain how he's always had this attitude towards me, but those OLD issues HAVE been resolved.
The only thing that has NOT changed in 2 weeks time is his attitude towards how he perceives me. We are NOT having problems now. His attitude is just annoying and frustrating. Not to mention hurtful.
There is nothing that I can do about it though as he is a very black and white thinker who thinks that people should think and act a certain way, and that any deviation from what he perceives to be normal is "weird" and "wrong" to him.
So bascially his attitude is still the same. I no longer see his friends or family. The issue with the meetup was an entirely diferent scenario (the one that happened two weeks ago).
I hope that I was able to clear things up this time! I should've just stuck to the recent disagreement and issue on here in the first place. From now on I will.