Hey Aviza.

As we go through life...we collect ideas that become our personal truths…more often than not these truths were taught to us by our family. Some of these truths we discard along the way...However, there are other personal truths that we tend to cling to, even if they are detrimental to us.

Several years ago...I took a long hard look at my list of personal beliefs...some were benificial to me, but most were toxic, outdated or downright ridiculous, including worrying about what others thought of me.
I now know that 99.9% of people care little about what I think or what I do...They care more about their own lives. We can't wait for others to validate, laud or honour us...we must do that for ourselves. I will never allow myself to concede defeat and give up...and I can’t allow myself to wish it.

I strive to be social when it is called for...but apart from that I endeavour to spend my time on worthwhile pursuits that don't need others approval. Life is hard…… but we must work toward finding little chunks of joy.

I dearly hope you find your joy soon Aviza.