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It is sort of an issue, but it's not actaul abuse IMHO. It's annoying and frustrating, yes. He doesn't tell me that I'm "weird" or whatever all the time. He just brings it up when my actions don't match what he thinks it should, like with the pic incident.

He was just being honest with his opionion. He said that other people will think that I'm "weird" for not wanting to have my pic taken. He's a good husband in other ways.

He's reliable, he is honest, and we get along fine most of the time. He is just set in his ways. There is a difference there. Being very opinionated isn't abusive IMHO. It's just the way that he is. He's like that with everyone. He's quick to judge people and label them as being "weird" or something that is "weird", like how he thinks the food that I eat is "weird". Not being able to be emotionally supportive isn't emotional abuse exactly. It's neglectful, but not abusive.

He's just not good with emotions. It's like trying to get an emotional person like me to be stoic. It's just not who he is.