God, you guys are being pretty judgemental. I wouldn't want to see the guy again either. Emailing that long and then sleeping with someone isn't that unbelievable. Maybe I'm just in a different generation than you, but I've had friends email for a week then meet up and have sex.

She didn't dig the guy, big deal. I'd be pretty disappointed too. But op aren't you married? There I do have a problem. I don't dig cheating...