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Old Feb 21, 2016, 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted by magicalprince View Post
It wasn't intended to be client-blaming, rather, IMO it is client-empowering. A therapist does not own your life or your emotions. They can't fix the problem, but they can help you see where the problem is and hopefully, what to do about it.
I dont find what you said empowering at all. Nor disempowering. Rather i find it to be a gross distortion of reality. If someone has made numerous attempts at therapy, and has come away feeling consistently harmed or just not helped, the empowering thing to say would be -- you deserve better, consider the myriad other ways there are to heal, not least your own internal resources. The message that is pounded incessantly is that therapy is some sort of prerequisite to overcoming life's problems.