I understand your side, but I am also trying to understand his. You don't want him to meet your family, not yet, but he wants to meet them. So, if you want him to respect your wish, then he will ask you to respect his. Saying you are happy with things as they are mean you are not willing to take it to the next level, as probably he is thinking. Anyway, you can talk with him, and reach to an agreement that satisfy both of you. Good luck