I am a career stay at home mom with no intention of changing that. This is my ambition, my goal my husband and i's decision together. We have old fashion values here and my husband thanks me often for being able to do what I do. Maybe you need educated in the positive aspects of having a stay at home parent so you might be able to appreciate your wife more. Our ambitions lie in our family. I worked 50-60 hour weeks before making the change 5 years ago and I can say this is the hardest thing, mentally, and physically I have ever done! You see your wife in the wrong light! not everyone finds happiness in money and jobs. I know mine is around the table each night with my husband and 4 kids. Life is about family. Marriage is sacred. Not something to be thrown away. Especially when as it sounds she is willing to work things out with you. People think your always gonna be in love with your spouse oh hell no! It's a cycle. There's times you are , there's times you'll want to kill each other. But if you communicate and work through it the bond becomes stronger. Don't throw away your family. Relationships are works in progress till the day you die! How sad your daughter must feel that you are taking care of another woman's daughter? My father threw me away and raised three other children. The pain doesn't stop! There's a reason you haven't filed that divorce yet! Maybe you should listen to yourself!

No matter how small, a positive change deserves to be celebrated!