Help, I have been trying to get a divorce for the last three years. Despite my best efforts, its as dirty and ugly as they come. My ex has done everything to destroy me. I agreed to child support...far below guideline, no spousal support, I let him have the house and less than 1/2 my share of the equity in our home. He refuses to pay the settlement is thousands behind in child support and I've spent $40K in legal fees.

My ex refused to go to mediation regarding visitation until finally I just wrote one up myself. I got him to agree to my visitation schedule and even went back to the table to give my ex an extra month so we could split my son's summer vacation. Summer's here and my ex couldn't take our son for the entire month but wanted me to drop him off on demand.

What gives? What am I doing wrong? I'm tired of fighting with him and no matter what I do it's never enough.