You seem extremely angry and critical of a man that you spent two years talking to and developing a relationship with-- even if it was online. I realize that rhe sex was a disappointment, but you aren't cutting him any slack. It takes two to tango. Perhaps something about your personality, or your lack of connection, contributed to his "situation." Or perhaps the two of you are just incompatible sexually. That doesn't necesaarily mean he "lied"-- it just means you two don't click. Why the need to vent online about it? I cant imagine being that critical of someone I spent two year talking to and liked enough to sleep with them. The level of anger just seems disproportionate to the situation. Clearly, you two are not a match-- no need to see one another again-- I just don't understand why you are so upset about it.