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Originally Posted by JustJenny
haier, if that was happening to me I would be pretty upset too. Did you try explaining to your bf that it is bothering you? Ideally he should support you and drive the conversations away from his ex-wife.
Have you thought of taking a break from your relationship - not seeing each other for a couple of weeks to understand you feeling better?
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I did talk to him about it but he says he can't control what other people say. He doesn't even try to do anything when her name pops up. I have thought about taking a break but I'm not sure what that entails. Currently we're only seeing each other one day out of the week. The thing is that he's really needy. He wants me to be there for him all the time. We were spending the whole weekend together w/my girls of course plus our weekly date night. Right now I stopped the weekend visits. He's really hurt about that and keeps telling me he wants "his" weekends back but I really don't care to do that. I feel like I'm giving way more than I'm getting back. I have no desire to be around any of his family and frankly I'm just scared of being put in the same uncomfortable situation over and over.
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