Thanks RCat.
I've got lots I'm working on for example, when my Dad was on the wagon I could see him.

When he was drinking he would hit on me and not leave me alone. My boyfriend and I couldn't have him as a house guest.
Then he came back one time with a hit man. When I prevented him from coming for me ( I ran out the side door to an alley and adjacent duplex). Then they went to the handball court where later I was told about shots fired at my then boyfriend.