My ex-T terminated me almost 6 months ago. I have since realized and gotten confirmation from a few therapists that she was emotionally abusive to me. I am normally a strong independent woman who doesn't put up with people like her, but I ignored my intuition for over a year. My new T is wonderful and has explained I was in a traumatic bond with ex-T and they are harder to get over.

I find myself still wanting to run into ex-T which is possible due to our small town. Why? To ignore her, to remind her of me, to make her regret how she treated me. All things that won't happen. Yet I still want it.

How do you get over missing someone who treated you poorly? I believe if she had given me the correct termination, I wouldn't feel this way. I would have had more closure.