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Old Feb 22, 2016, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted by RedSun View Post

I don't feel angry, and my T gets angry and that feels very validating.
I think she gets it, I think she has had some experience....
But she doesn't seem to get that I need her to oppose me, and my view. I don't need her to agree with me, because I'm saying its my fault etc because I'm scared to say anything else.

I'm sorry you're feeling so alone with this Pre.
Ty.
That's how I felt in the beginning, too. I couldn't access my anger. Intellectually, I knew if this had happened to most anyone else I would feel angry. It took some time before I felt angry. I remember feeling sorry for him, I didn't want him to go to jail. I remember feeling very afraid.

I hope your T helps you find your anger.