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Old Feb 22, 2016, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
The first one I see does not get me at all. But in sort of the opposite way of what OP is talking about. I have no idea why one of them would get mad about something that happened to me and in fact I would not like it if they did - it happened to me not them - it is not theirs to get mad or anything else about.
Thanks for this.mit hadn't occurred to me that it might be unrealistic to expect T to feel angry about it. Really. Maybe what I need is for her to help me express my feelings about it more. Thinking.

I think I expected them to feel angry because the abuser is/was in the same profession. Still thinking.

Thank you.