My husband lives in another country.

I have had relationships concurrent with my marriage that have lasted 5 or more years.
It's not usually intercourse. But touching.

My husband wouldn't understand but is asexual. Or nonsexual. His first marriage ended because of this.

He did try to meet my advances while we were engaged. I had a lot of money ,property and 2 businesses.

He had a job and a pension. He's a good person.

My lifestyle is different than most people. I don't judge others. I struggle with bipolar and do have to keep my own needs met.