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Originally Posted by Soccer mom
I do plan to write her a long letter once I've healed and am past this. My new T wants it to be more about what I've realized and how far I come. she knows that ex-T will see how she failed me. I actually hope to do this in person as she told me I could contact her when I forgive my mom and my dad passes away. it will be in a few years when the emotions are not as raw. in the meantime, I'm trying to get over her. I do have revenge fantasies.  |
I think your new T may be giving your old T more credit than is due. Honestly, most people will never really see, nor admit, they have done wrong. Generally, trying to get resolution from people who have harmed us to that degree just doesn't happen and they almost never feel any regret for their actions. I guess I've kind of learned that the resolution has to come within myself.