I'm no longer trying to meet men, been there, done that. But I have to say I do have one friend on FB, a Black man from a family I know where I grew up, who is SO intelligent, SO articulate, so insightful. He really dispells any qualms I would have about dating him, if he were available. He's happily married, and, of course, we are just FB friends. I just admire his integrity and intellect. I've never dated anyone of a different race, but knowing of this man, I can see how one could form a bond without race being an issue.