Yes. I do feel my T gets it. This was the one topic (not that we've gotten into details, but still) where he showed incredible attunement. Ironic, really, given that the man can't ever seem to remember what meds I'm on or my husband's name.

I guess you'll just have to be explicit in what you need, what sort of response you're looking for. Easier said than done, I know, and I imagine it must be incredibly disappointing and frustrating to not have your T just instinctively 'get' this of all things. Wish you the best.