What is being a guy all about? I'd say someone (a man, of course) who does things and doesn't talk about them. That could be exercise or work or school or whatever it is you do. And being useful and having skills to fix things or get things done is a decent definition of what a guy is. And emotional intelligence without coming off like a complainer or whiner yet able to communicate clearly. Everyone has their own definition, but really I think it's about being useful and owning self respect along with looking out for others and not afraid to lend a helping hand and not expecting something in return, as long as it's reasonable