I'm disappointed that this situation did not work out for me.

Now I'm also wary of believing people on the Internet. That's been taken away from me.
I am so independent that the idea that there's other people in my life, it didn't cross my mind to make my post more complicated.

My husband is like my business partner. And we don't get a chance to even talk very much. Imo 20 years is a great success in any relationship - friend,lover, husband,brother.