... because this forum is so googleable, I wonder if someone could give me a tad support in PM?

This is absolutely not about any upsetting thing. I just need someone to talk to about a "minor" thing.

It actually would help a lot if you are living IRL as your ASAB even though you are a demi, fluid, androgynous or agender.

I have to be a bit careful because... um if RL gets mixed with PC it will be a disaster.