I wasn't in love with my husband when we were married either. However we were really great friends, he was definetly in love with me and I did have love for him. I was actually 26 and he was 24. I knew in my heart he was the right choice and hopefully love would come later. It took two years! We've been married 8 1/2 years now and I couldn't imagine my life without him. Love comes and goes in any relationship. The first years are definetly the hardest! As long as there's no violence or abuse in the marriage it's definetly worth pushing on until you know 100% for sure it just won't work. I remember trying to leave my husband once about a year and a half in. He held on so tight that I couldn't. And now I am so thankful he was able to love for me during the times I just couldn't! Lots of hope your way! I really hope you find a way through this and find what I found with my husband!

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